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Wednesday, January 25, 2012
we made the news!
Pfeifer Camp Graduation on the news! Check it out people! What they don't cover in this video is how we had the President and CEO of the Winthrop Rockefeller Foundation, Sherece West speak at graduation. She was the most moving speaker that we have had in my opinion. She really understood what these kids go through and the amazing experience they had while at Pfeifer Camp.
Saturday, January 21, 2012
Success Story II
Liberation
Being asked to read a book aloud in front of one’s peers is
a daunting task for a fourth grader. The pure fear and anxiety created by this
request during reading group brings about behaviors that often make getting
through a page of the book difficult. First, there is the moment of shock on
their face, followed by a big gulp, then finally a quick look around at the
faces of their peers waiting for them to start. For most students I have worked
with this is a rather quick and painless process, resulting in a new confidence
in their reading ability. For Khari though, this challenge was more for him to
handle than the average student. Khari’s first several attempts all ended about
the same- with him shutting down and quitting. Khari often got through about
five sentences before one of his classmates would kindly ask him to read a
little bit louder because they couldn’t follow along with him because he was
too quiet. This act of shutting down was a pattern that Khari exhibited at
other times during class, and therefore I had a bit more patience with him.
After about the third time of this happening it occurred to me that we were
reading the most perfect book because the main character had intense fears that
his best friend was helping him overcome. In The Liberation of Gabriel King, Gabe’s friend Frita helps him
overcome his fears one-by-one by making him face his fears slowly and steadily.
Frita declares it her mission to help “liberate” Gabe from his fears. I decided
during reading group that I was going to do my best to liberate Khari from his
fear of reading aloud during reading group. At first, Khari was not excited
about this plan. After a bit of consideration and reassurance on my end, he
accepted my proposal to face his fear. During reading group, while the rest of
the group worked on a worksheet, he would read aloud only to me. At first he
was very apprehensive, but I could see his confidence growing the more he read
to me. After about the third time he and I read together, he told me that he
was ready to read aloud to the group. On the last week of reading group, Khari
raised his hand to read and began in a new and self-assured voice. I could see
the surprise of his group mates immediately. After he had finished reading, one
of his group members raised their hand and told him how good of a reader he
was. Khari thanked them with a bashful smile, and his cheeks got a bit red with
embarrassment. After reading group that day he thanked me for helping him to
overcome his fear, and I in turn thanked him for being so brave. Just like
Gabriel King, Khari had a great fear that made it difficult for him to
function. With a friend to guide him and provide support, Khari was able to
face his fear and find success.
Thursday, January 19, 2012
Success Story from Session 1!
From the
first moment I met Destiny I suspected she would be one of the most challenging
in our cabin. To say that she had a strong personality would be an
understatement. She was hard-headed, not afraid to speak her mind, and was in
constant need of attention. During her first week at camp she made quite the
name for herself. Not only did she tell numerous lies about her cabin mates;
toward the end of the week, one of her
cabin mates was assigned to keep track of her because the sight of every little
bug and the sound of every rustle in the leaves would distract her away from
the group. In fact, her behavior was so extreme that we were afraid we would
have to ask her not to come back to camp because she was so hard to handle.
While discussing this possibility with Destiny it became immediately clear that
she really wanted to stay at camp and work on her behavior. She loved
everything about the outdoors and by talking with her family about having her
medicine at camp, she was able to come back and work on what she needed to so
that she could function positively within the group. As soon as she arrived at
camp the Sunday of the second week, her demeanor had changed dramatically. Upon
entering the cabin, she immediately made apologies to the cabin mates she had
upset and set goals for herself. Her positive consequence for following through
on these goals were often outdoors oriented. She absolutely loved cooking
during campout, and by making good choices she basically cooked the cabin’s
dinner over the fire on the third week by herself. The most dramatic sign of
her transformation while at camp occurred during the last couple hours of her
session at camp during a team building activity. The activity required that the
girls work together to move long poles that they were standing on by holding on
to ropes attached to the poles and lifting their right foot then left foot. We
split the cabin into two groups and made it a race. At first Destiny’s group
was really struggling and it didn’t seem like they would get anywhere without
arguing. After the initial leader of her group gave up, Destiny stepped up and
successfully led the group across the finish line first. Her achievement didn’t
stop there; when she noticed the other group was still struggling she offered
her help and lead them across the line as well. When given the chance to work
on her behavior and receive positive consequences Destiny thrived and found a
healthy outlet for her energy in outdoor activities. Pfeifer Camp gave her the
chance to succeed by giving her the opportunity to make up for her mistakes and
explore the things about herself that made her a leader.
Saturday, January 7, 2012
FINALLY
I realize there are not a TON of people that view this blog, and that no one has probably been waiting with bated breath.... but to those that do read my blog about my experience here in Ar-Kan-Saw I sincerely apologize for my lack of an update. So, without further adieu....
..........
...Jeez...where to start?
Ok... so I don't get overwhelmed I will just start where the spirit leads me. :)
We got to take a guided tour through Central High during our Field Trip last session! |
During the first session I was paired with Clara (as you may have seen in my last post). To fill in for one of the staff members we let go after the first week of staff training, we brought Clara in from Indiana and I was paired with her to provide a bit of role modeling because she only had about a 1/2 week of training. We had a great time being co-counselors together, and of course we loved our girls.... even when they were pushing us to the brink of insanity (although, it could be argued that a person has to have a certain amount of insanity to work here ;)
The local veterinarian held a Fall Festival with a cool bubble station. |
diggin for diamonds! |
This was it at it's worst. |
3 sided cabins in Illinois! |
Much love to all!
A couple of my girls reading with each other by the light of the fire :) |
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We made Gingerbread Houses during the CIT Christmas Party! |
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